One thing i started doing recently with online dating is going on the first date over Facetime FIRST before i go on an official first date with a woman. This has been saving me SO MUCH time.
You know within the first 5 minutes if you guys have chemistry. I realized that it was taking me so much time to get ready, drive across town, find somewhere to meet, organize a time to meet that’s good for both of us, and then ON TOP OF ALL OF THAT because i knew within the first few minutes weather it was YES or NO i had to sit there with a woman i already knew i wasn’t interested in.
So what i started doing was going on the first date over Facetime and then if that goes well going on an actual first date. Whats great about that is i don’t have to sit there on really boring awkward first date with someone I’m not even interested in.
Next time you go on a first date, see for yourself. See if within the first few minutes you are interested in her or not. Trust me, i bet you know within the first few minutes.
All it will take is going on a few really boring first few dates with a woman you don’t even like to start doing this.
This has been saving me so much time. I’m so glad i started doing this.
~ Sam